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| | Saw this on the internet............How weird~ | 給站在天秤兩端的戀人~~~~~~~~~~~~~`
當妳們在相戀相愛的同時.你們有想過該如何相處嗎.
我们都知道凡事要溝通.只可惜溝通最後都變成在爭論.雙方都不肯細細聽對方的表達.總是堅持自己的立場.
我们也都知道包容.但是卻錯用包容的意涵.往往被包容的一方.總是心存僥倖.甚至也不懂體諒對方的用心.一再的犯錯.好像在挑戰對方包容的尺度.
自尊..哈哈哈.誰都要面子.所謂贏了面子而輸了裡子.贏了一口氣而輸掉全部.死不肯認錯.只為了所謂的自尊.
體諒.你們真的有體諒對方所付出的一切嗎?當兩人在爭的你死我活的同時.有誰想過對方的好嗎?有時甚至得理不饒人.想到的都是如何置對方於死地.
其實所有曾經相愛的兩人.都沒犯過什麼大錯.怎會如此容易分手.是因為個性不適合嗎?那都是給自己的藉口吧了.等到分手.才後悔當時的魯莽與衝動.仔細想想.下一個出現的人真的就會更好嗎?就算會更好.如果你還是依然如此.那麼你永遠就活在下一個的迷思裡.再也走不出來.
親愛的朋友.好好想想.也許你身邊那位愛人.並不是那麼完美.但....你不也是嗎.聽聽我的勸告.我的教訓.就是你們的借鏡.多珍惜你們曾經擁有的一切.
願~~天下戀人永遠記的對方的好@@@...... |
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| Okay, only 11 days left in Malaysia. Sort of eager to go back to a more productive life, but I know I will just miss life here. Truth be told, I'm getting sick of going to class everyday...learning overload...let's see, Interest Rate Derivatives, Currency Options, Corporate Finace, Asset Backed Securities, Credit Derivatives, Debt Capital Markets...... who would have thought little Christine would be learning all these things!! ha ha ha Things to miss: own hotel room, freedom, no work, no parents, friends from all over the world, room service latte, chilling by poolside, outings and just general laziness. Things not to miss: Tests after tests after tests on MONDAYS!, bad instructors, speeches by seniors, Malaysia food, bf not around. =================================================== Went to see firefly last last weekend with 12 friends. Rented a little boat and they take you on the lake to watch the fireflies. It was really nice, and that night was full moon too. Too bad the firefly don't show up in pictures at all. Caught the sunset. 
The place. 
Me and Andrea on one side of the boat. 
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| Looking back at old entries are fun! I've joined xanga for almost 5 years, and I'm really glad I documented some thoughts down as well as some cool pictures. Of course, it is only at the leisure of training times that I have the time to visit my site. HAH. Resolution is to post more pictues. But I only got this one for now: Tso Tso when when came to Taiwan 
As many all know, I fell guilty for not accomplishing things everyday. I need to learn to tell myself, you are on vacation, just relax and don't worry about it!!!! Let's call it a recharging period to catch up on some TV and books and get ready for work and CFA. RELAX!!!!! (Isn't the picture funny?) 
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| 1. Was in Singapore last week for company training. It was a small city with not much to do. If it weren't for the local GA taking us around, we would probably have done absolutley nothing. At the night Safari waiting for the animal show: 
well, you know what this is 
site seeing on a rainy-sleepy afternoon. our bank is the building on the very left. 
2. Now in Malaysia and will be till almost the end of July. Sort of bored, been here before. Started playing with the webcam. Christine just woke up 
Christine studing after class 
Nothing to do, so Christine sings K in her room 
HAHAHHAHA You will be suprised as to how many more self pictures I took. hahaa. Can't blame me, the cam is build in the computer, very convenient. When I return to Taiwan, I will be at the fixed income trading desk. Should be super. Looking forward to it very much. Also, going to take a stab at studying for the CFA. hehe oh ok, also a picture of my kitty. all grown up. So cute! Just like her owner. (you know I just HAVE to add that in. heh) 
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| 1. I got so bored today thatI actually joined facebook. ME!! FACEBOOK!! Those are just two works that shouldn't even appear in the same sentence. So now you know how bored I am. Totally and utterly bored out of my mind. But of course, after adding a few people to my account. I gave up. Now that is more like the me I know. What the heck was I thinking..... joining facebook. 2. Three more working weeks until I take a week off and then it's time for training agian in Singapore and Malaysia for 6 weeks! Cannot wait to take a vacation there. SOMETHING TO LOOK FORWARD TO. Working too much makes me want to gag. Did you see the newspaper? Taiwan rank 3rd in the world in terms of work hour, and the females especially when compared to the male. 3. Not in the best of mood lately. Sometimes depressed, sometimes easily arritated. Work so hard during the week that I count the days to weekend. When weekend comes there is absolutely nothing interesting to do and I just lay around and mope. I am someone that needs to accomplish something everyday in order to feel good. If weekend goes by so "eventless", nothing new, nothing fun, then it is just like not having the weekend. Who would know what the hell I'm talking about? Rob would. SIGN. 4. Okay, pictures of my Kitty! Puffy hair....but with diper on she looks so skinny at the end. HAHAH 
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